STYLE ME CHUMMY: Respect | Inspiration of the Week

A lot of people didn't know the real concept of respect. People thought that respect is when a child have to respect the elders, but that is just one of the tiniest part of respect. Respect actually covers a wide range, it covers people of all ages towards anybody they meet.

Respect is important and it can be seen in the way you speak, your actions,
and your behaviour towards a person. You need to know who the person you are talking to, at the right timing, and also are the words you are throwing out, is it appropriate? Or not?

A child needs to be respect as well as a teen, an adult and also the elderly. A lot of people actually neglected the fact that a child actually do understand every single word you said, every action you do towards them, every emotions you throw on them, every feelings you have on them, and they will treat you the way you treated them in return. They have feelings too and they understand every single word you said and they know it, very, very well. They will just keep it deep, deep down inside their heart. They will actually feel hurt and they will know who treat them well with pure heart because they have a really strong feeling inside them. They can't present out their feelings, that is why they have a stronger feeling than us, that is the only power God gave them because they just can't talk when they were babies. In many cases, you can see where babies will cry if some people holding them, but they will not cry when they face with some other people. Some animals do too though?

A teen and an adult-to-be need a lot of respects as well. That is because, their point of view is actually different from a lot of adults. Sometimes, they will have a wider view on an issue and their opinions may bring a really great impact. Most adults just don't understand about this because in their opinion, they think that they have a greater experience in life but do you know that the culture of the world is changing just like the fashion trends?

Everybody knows that adults and elderly needed to be respected. The widest part is towards the adults. That is because the adult are actually in the "real" world. "Real world" I mean in their working space, family bonding, money.... They just have too much stuff to deal with, so they for sure need respects in all aspects, but don't forget to respects others if you want others to respect you.

In our today's social life, there are so many people who just don't respect their elderlies no more. When the elderly became old and weak, they will mistreat them, angry at them when the elderlies are talking crap. But do you know that you will just be like them by the time you get old? Things change, people do too, so did the universe.

Respect others, even if they are in your age, younger than you or older than you. Each and every one of us, including the tiniest living things in this universe need to be respected. All of us are related, we are all in one. We come to this world as flesh, maybe some of us were born in rich family, some of us are born in poor family; some of us are born with nature beauty, and some of us don't. In the end, everybody will have to leave this world as a skull, we can't bring our fame, treasures and beauty with us. Therefore, everyone is the just the same.

After that, the whole cycle will just continue, and continue, and continue. Remember there's a thing that is called Karma. That is the cycle of the whole universe.

By respecting others, in return you are showing others that you have self respect too, and people will respect you.